Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Tuesday, 29 January 2013

What is life about?

What is life about? Is it about the natural cycle of reincarnation? Is it about finding love? Is it about making money? Is it about serving God? Is it about finding your soul, and being able to recognize the difference between our soul and body? Is it about influencing someone, and changing someone's life? Is it about saving someone's life? Is it about being happy? Is it about learning some big lesson in each life we live, in order to have a better life in the next one? Is it about finding that certain thing that makes us feel in balance with everything else in life? Is it about finding your soul mate? Is it about simply having fun? Is it only about spreading our genetics? Is it about learning how to forgive? Is it learning to truly recognize the difference between loneliness, and being alone? Is it about learning to laugh? Is it about finding that one thing that sparks a passion? Is it about learning valuable information, and spreading it? Is it about proving that humans are merely a part of the animal race? Is it about learning that life can't be defined?
What is it about?
I'd like to know, because sometimes part of me knows the answer, and other days I feel so confused and perplexed that I simply get a headache, and decide to visit the subject another day. And yet, every day I simply think of more things to add to the list that questions why we're here.
So, why are we here?
To question why we're here?

P.S. Here comes the headache. Should have known it would come eventually. I can't escape the damn things.
P.P.S. Leave a comment if you have a theory on what life is about! I'm truly curious.
-Curious Gabby

Thursday, 3 January 2013

Stop accepting, and start demanding

Before I start, let me just say it's been months since I've blogged. So, excuse me if I'm slightly rusty. And I'd ilke to add that I am disappointed in myself since it seems that I have forgotten about my blog. But I never really forgot about it, just felt like I didn't have anything to say.
Today at an ungodly hour, I had a thought. I had a thought about human beings (of course). Why we think the way we do, how unique we all are, why we can't seem to understand ourselves, things like that... And I couldn't stop thinking about it. All of it. Just why we are the way we are, and why we accept it. It's actually kind of funny the way people accept things. But the things we accept are generally things we can't control like death, break ups, things like that. And you know what kills me? When people say "I just have to accept that this is how my life turned out." Lies. Lies. Lies, and more lies. Oh my gosh I can not even describe to you how much this irks me. Who gave us that idea? Who planted this ridiculous notion in our minds that tells us we're hopeless? We're powerful! We don't have to accept this. We're so damn powerful we don't know what to do with it sometimes.
So, don't accept it. Spit in "life's" face and tell it to come back another day. Take control of your life, and don't accept it if it hasn't turned out the way you want it to. And I just want to point out that I didn't say the way you planned. Life isn't going to go the way you planned it to, and that's because there are too many people on this earth, and everyone's life intertwines. You can plan on curing cancer, but someone else might do it first. Anyway, if your life is something that disappoints you, and seems unworthy. You are the one doing things wrong. It's not like someone is in the skies with a plan for all of us. I understand that not everyone agrees with that, but something you should know about me is that I am not religious. Enough about that, let's get back to what I was saying.
Don't accept it. Don't put blame on someone else. Don't look back and regret. Don't pity. Don't sigh and dream. Just get behind the damn wheel and drive. GO! Stop waiting. Stop accepting. Start demanding. Because with all the thing that get handed to us without our permission, we deserve to demand. But let me remind you of attitude. Look at what is handed to us as another stepping stone to our ultimate ending. In a good way. The ending of our lives should be something we work to, because when we leave we should feel proud. If you don't, you did something wrong. But before you're at that point, take control and demand a damn great life. Because we deserve it. If you work for it, that is.
Have a great night everyone, and don't stay up awake at night thinking about the human race. Go to sleep, and wake up into a new day.
Unlike me of course. I'll ponder because that is all I ever seem to do.
-Gabby

Thursday, 15 December 2011

Just be happy

Oh, hi there. It's been a while since I've written, and my last post was quite the odd one. But don't get too excited, because this one will be short since I'm not feeling so well. I just wanted to mention a little bit about life. Ya know, the normal speel.
In my opinion, life is about being happy. I don't think it's about being God's representatives, or living according to his rules. My whole family is Christian, and I used to be Christian myself until I realized that living according to his rules weren't making me happy. But don't get me wrong, there are definitely things I agree with in the religion. I agree with doing good and helping other people, but the things like heaven and hell take it a little too far. To those who are about to blow up the comment section yelling at me and beginning to pray for me, don't worry about me. I respect your passion, but don't try to push a religion on me.
Now that I've mentioned that, I'm going back to the being happy part. A friend of mine has told me repeatedly times that "We can't help other people unless we, ourselves are whole." (Forgive me if those weren't your exact words) Meaning that, we can't attempt to help other people, or make someone else happy unless we are happy. It seems selfish at first thought, but how do we expect to give advice to someone in need when we need advice. But, don't forget that people never stop growing. Advice should never stop being received, and should never be put off because we don't think we need it. No matter how whole we are, that circle of wholeness can always get bigger (that was awful). So, my point is that being happy is the most important part about life, although I'm positive I've metioned that more than once.