Things never turn out the way they're supposed to. We always get involved into something thinking "Okay, this is how it's going to turn out." But really, it never turns out that way! Life hands us situations and we're always the one to be surprised by the end result, when later in life when you look back you begin to think "How did I not see it coming?" How can we change that? How can we look at a situation before we get involved and know what's going to happen? Sometimes I wish we had the ability to do just that, but I know we can't.
But it's not always a bad thing. Usually the best things in life are from surprises. That "unexpected" child. The spontanious travel plans where you meet your future spouse. It's really amazing how these things just happen. So, since we never really for-see our future, we should stop trying to, and begin to really just absorb what's happening now.
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